I am a natural protective kind of man with a good heart, and one who strongly believes in respect. I am also an all around type individual, and there are many sides of me. I have a gothic side, nerdy side, quiet side, goofy side, among many others. I am secure within my masculinity, which allows me to explore many sides of me, including my childhood in public and alone. When it comes to certain things I do have high standards. I am a quiet and generally humble man, unless sometimes when I get excited I will talk a lot and be a little shaky. I do have some feminine characteristics, such as me collecting faerie statues and witchy things. I make it a great effort to rebel against any social stereotypes regarding what a man should be, or any social stereotypes in general. Stereotypes are a means of social and personal control most often led by the media. Rebel against it. I encourage all men to rebel against public humiliation and social emasculation. Any man should warn his girlfriend or wife ahead of time that he will not accept nor tolerate Any form of male belittlement, humiliation, or emasculation. Women are socially taught that to be seen as a strong and independent woman she must openly disrespect men and deny men's needs. This is one of the many social corruptions and stereotypes that need to come to an end. This is becoming a social Norm, and men need to fight against it. Those women who agree with me need to defend men against the women who degrade men. I have known many men who defended women against men who belittle them, and I have personally defended woman on countless times. I am a strong believer that both men and women need to have love, appreciation, as well as equal and open respect toward one another in person and in public. Respect and appreciation of each others genders is important.
Because it is a big deal to me to defend my gender, regardless of the countless times of me defending women, I have a deep feeling that I will have very few female friends, and will be single for a very long, if not forever. I have thought about this for a long time, and decided this is worth fighting for and doing what is right than any relationship. I don't care if I am single for the rest of my life, and none of my needs from a woman are fulfilled, I will not stop fighting for men's (and women's) rights and equalities. In our society it is also an issue where men are taught that men's needs are not important, that men's standards are not important, and for men to make fun of any standards they might have. This also needs to come to an end. Men need to revive their pride in being natural men. They need to restore their standards and self needs, and once again place value in themselves and their needs (alongside women's needs). The social practice of women approaching men with the "guilty until proven innocence" act must also come to an end. Whenever any woman comes to me with this attitude, I make sure they never do it again. It is up to men (and some women who defend men) to put this to an end. I'm honestly afraid to raise a son in such a sexist society, honestly. I don't want my son to be in a society where its normal for the majority of women to treat them like garbage. Men and women need to put in effort to do whats right for humanity. To instill love in society. Another stereotype in our society -- love is weak or "fluffy." This must come to an end. All stereotypes must be suppressed. I'm done talking. May everyone take care.
Beliefs and Practices- Please be Detailed
Im a follower of the Old Religion of Witchcraft. I believe in the ancient Moon Goddess and the Horned Hunter God. I also enjoy good spirits, the elements, guardians, and ancestors.
Favorite Books
Witchcraft Today (Gardner), Witchcraft the Old Religion (Martello), The Meaning of Witchcraft (Gardner), The Witch Cult in Western Europe (Murray), Hereditary Witchcraft (Grimassi), The Gospels of Aradia (Leland).
How Did You Hear About the PaganMystics Community?
Through another member.
Likes
I love pizza, chess, whitewater rafting, bowling, pool, Italian, Greek and Mexican foods, studies in anthropology, sociology, world history, occultism, extraterrestrial study, gender equality, and there are a few conspiracy theories that I enjoy studying into (I only believe in 20% of all conspiracies).
Dislikes
gender inequalities, gender belittlement, public emasculation, religious inequalities, combination of church and state, closed minded militant religions that preach a vengeful deity (what an insult), globalization, stereotypes of any kind (social and personal controls), and politicians.
What's one thing you'd like to be remembered for when you pass?
That I was a strong promoter of the Old Religion, and that I fought hard for complete gender equality and anti-emasculation.
What Do You Expecte to Get out of This Site?
Friendship, positive energy, learn things from other people, maybe find someone in future who I stumble across that might turn into a potential relationship maybe.
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